Dec 19 2004
“No thanks, I’m practicing.”
Far too often, when I walk into a pool room, alone, to practice, I am approached by one or more people to play with them. For some reason, they feel that either I was just waiting for them to approach me or that I was only playing alone by circumstance. Some are much more persistent than others. I used to have a difficult time saying “no” to people, particularly my friends, because I didn’t want to be rude. But now, my signature response is “No thanks, I’m practicing.”
I know that I am not the only girl who tries to practice alone and gets interrupted by questions or comments. And, not to bash any of the guys, but I don’t know any female pool player that has been able to walk into a pool room to practice alone without getting approached at least once. We’re not the only victims though. Even the male players I know find themselves getting involved in a game when they should be or wanted to be practicing.
Personally, I like to handle the situation like this: As I notice someone walking towards my table with that look in their eye (most of the time, they’re polite enough to at least wait until I finish my shot), I immediately begin walking towards the opposite end of the table, away from them. When that doesn’t work and they still ask if I want to play, without making eye contact or showing any interest, I quickly respond with, “No thanks, I’m practicing.” In fact, I have recently printed myself a couple t-shirts with that phrase on the backside. They’ve been working great! (I plan to market them on SammsPocket.com by 2005). Now, I’m not implying my technique works for everyone, nor is it the best way to handle the situation, but I have found it to be most effective for me.
Okay, on to the important part… When you show up to practice, practice. Regardless if the people that approach you are your friends or someone trying to pick you up. Try not to let that distract you from the purpose of your trip to the pool room. I’m sure most of you can agree with me that your time is very valuable. Spending time alone in the pool room, away from your friends and family, to practice things you need to work on speaks highly of you and your devotion to improving in this game. Anyone who doesn’t recognize your purpose does not realize the importance of it and probably doesn’t have the same goals themselves.
To summarize, whether you’re a guy or girl, afford yourself the time to develop your skills in this game that you love. Don’t be afraid to say “no” when you’re approached for a game and most importantly, don’t be afraid to practice alone. It’s the only way to practice.
Thanks to all our readers. Have a safe & wonderful holiday!
